Friday, February 25, 2011

Pandabear Project 7 of 100 : Planning Forever

He asked me if he should tell me his plans. I told him that he should. After all it's just plans right.

1. Get married at 25.


I told him he's lucky that he didn't meet me last year since I changed my mind about marriage last September. But had he met me before that, there would be a repeat of his past. In my past, I have had those proposals too. I said NO. Flat out no. Okay, I said it in my head, I tried to distract them with other things so they would shut up about it.

I know four men who are loyal to their wives. FOUR. Well those that are close to me at least. I am counting my dad, an uncle, Michael (he's a newlywed) and an uncle-in-law. I am not naming names because they might demand that I name them and if I don't, well we know what that implies, right?

I know that there are a lot of things that I have to learn and unlearn to be a loyal girlfriend. But I am old enough to know and have enough life experiences to know that men stray not on their on volition. There are factors behind it. And it is not always the wife's fault. Not entirely at least. Oh, and you can't always tell if your man is a cheating bastard.

It's easier to train your man to be more truthful but you can never really say if he is just a better liar than you are, right?

But I can't let my fears get the best of me.

So note to self: Stop freaking out. They're just excited.

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