By 30, you should have:
- One old boyfriend you can imagine going back to and one who reminds you of how far you’ve come. (check and check)
- A decent piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone else in your family. (I rent a tiny ass place so no to this)
- Something perfect to wear if the employer or man of your dreams wants to see you in an hour. (I have a total of six dresses. White, 2 black, 1 red and white, 1 green, and 1 blue and white. None of which are perfect for this situation)
- A purse, a suitcase and an umbrella you’re not ashamed to be seen carrying. (hate purses but I have a handbag - big deal since I am a backpack person/need to buy that suitcase and that umbrella)
- A youth you’re content to move beyond. Check!
- A past juicy enough that you’re looking forward to retelling it in your old age. (Check! I might need to leave some parts out for proprieties sake)
- The realization that you are actually going to have an old age—and some money set aside to help fund it. (I need to pay off my debts and then save)
- An e-mail address, a voice mailbox and a bank account—all of which nobody has access to but you. (I need to work on the last two)
- A résumé that is not even the slightest bit padded. (check!)
- One friend who always makes you laugh and one who lets you cry. (Check!)
- A set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill and a black lace bra.
- Something ridiculously expensive that you bought for yourself, just because you deserve it. (Check! Laptop.)
- The belief that you deserve it.
- A skin-care regimen, an exercise routine and a plan for dealing with those few other facets of life that don’t get better after 30. (uhm, okay. I will work on this)
- A solid start on a satisfying career, a satisfying relationship and all those other facets of life that do get better. (nope.nope.Does friendships and family count? Yes, I know. I will work on me first then on these, okay?)
By 30, you should know:
- How to fall in love without losing yourself. (Okay, this is hard so I will work on it.)
- How you feel about having kids. (If I can have some, I will. If I can't, I am good with it.)
- How to quit a job, break up with a man and confront a friend without ruining the friendship. (check, check and check!)
- When to try harder and when to walk away.
- How to kiss in a way that communicates perfectly what you would and wouldn’t like to happen next.
- The names of: the secretary of state, your great-grandmother and the best tailor in town.
- How to live alone, even if you don’t like to.
- How to take control of your own birthday. (this will never happen. My birthday is the day before the festival in my hometown. I can never control this.)
- That you can’t change the length of your calves, the width of your hips or the nature of your parents.
- That your childhood may not have been perfect, but it’s over.
- What you would and wouldn’t do for money or love.
- That nobody gets away with smoking, drinking, doing drugs or not flossing for very long.
- Who you can trust, who you can’t and why you shouldn’t take it personally.
- Not to apologize for something that isn’t your fault.
- Why they say life begins at 30. (I wouldn't know till then, wouldn't I?)
Come to think of it, I did quite good. Half is better than a quarter. And the fun thing is that I learned most of the stuff just last year. Who said 25 is a quarter crisis? Once you get past it, it's actually a very rewarding time in one's life. Well, I won't be 26 until this May, so I will work on greening all the other stuff on this list. ^^ Though #15 should have is harder than the rest. T_T, I hope I can get that crossed out before the deadline. ^^ Aja, fighting!~
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